Having my eldest and younger sister who got married before me, I knew how to roughly plan on wedding and stuffs (konon da ada experience lah gitu).
And I also know which vendor to take as I have met a few....
I also did my own research and finally came to a decision......
It is not easy I tell you, especially when it concerns the once in a lifetime event...
and I definitely want a good cameraman who can capture these moments as me and my spouse is gonna look at the album for our entire life! I do not mind paying more for quality :)
*tak boleh bawak main2 siol*
Even before the engagement I already plan on who I wanted for Bridal, Photography, Videography, Deco...
Entertainment, Catering, Dulang Hantaran all Mum got a lot of lobang...
Kompang all his side mah....
My wedding is not a lavish one lah....just a simple event where Wak Jawa and myself would like to share our love with our family and friends :)
I shall share with you the journey on my plans for choosing the vendors once I have shared with you my engagement journey ok?
Till den....see you soon!!
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
Thursday 26 December 2013
Tuesday 24 December 2013
The Plan for Engagement......
My family did not manage to perform for Umrah as my mum fell ill and collapse while at work on 09 January. She had Brain Aneurysm, which means that one of her blood vessel in the brain burst. Our family was feeling at our worse because she collapse on my Grandfather's birthday and the very next day is my Dad's birthday and on that day that she collapse, my younger sis found out that she was pregnant and is waiting for Mum to end work to tell her.
She was warded in ICU for almost a month and the only thing on my mind was "will mum get to see me married?"
Everyday I prayed and doa to Allah......
Alhamdulillah mum survived the 8 hours long operation that she has to undergo to clip the burst blood vessel. And till now, mum is on long sick leave....
from 9 January 2013 till today, 24 December 2013......lama kan? She is progressing well and she is able to do the normal duties however she is not strong as before lah. So wherever she go, we will not let her be alone.
Touching part, my parents and Wak Jawa parents have never met but they actually come down to visit my mum when she was in ICU...eh.....sweet kaper!!!!! touching eh...
They also did a small kenduri and cooked the bubur merah for mum to get well soon..eh eh.....nak nangis siol!!!!!!! asal sweet sangat bakal mertua ku??!!!! Sayang sangat lah!
Now back to the planning....
After da masok meminang session during April, we finally decided on the date. Since me and Wak Jawa wanted in June, we all agreed on 22 June 2013, Saturday.
Me and Wak Jawa planned on a simple 'just sarung cincin' event. Dulang setakat 3-4 with food only. Setakat jemput ahli keluarga terdekat furthermore my mum not that well right, don wanna tire her lah.
A few weeks later his mum mentioned that she has bought for me kain, sejadah,telekung and etc for the dulang.........eh eh.....macam nak nikah plak..haha!!! (I can understand coz its their 1st child mah)
And when his dad says that they want to pasang mini tentage kat depan rumah and inviting guests of 200 I was like -
Yes, anjat gegirl!!!! When I told my mum about it, she was happy because that is also what she wanted, to have a majlis. Haiz, mak aku ni pon....orang tanak penat kan dia.......
I also had a talk with Wak Jawa....he said to just follow if that's what our mum wanted...
I berdegil still wanna have it my way but what Wak Jawa said really change my mind...
"Awak, remember that time when you almost lost your mum? You don't want to live with regret of not fulfilling her wish right? Mak ayah kita ni besar hati anak2 da nak membina hidup baru...biarlah kita ikut jer cakap dorang k...."
Hmmmm....ok boss!!
I already knew who I wanted to doll me up on my day so senang lah, its a close fren of mine...
dulang all DIY from my mum's best friend nyer anak...
deco pon siket2 lah use her...makan2 all will be at the void deck.....
my void deck space just a small one lah...with karaoke sponsored by my Dad's friend...melampau eh! I initially didn't want the karaoke but Dad say "kan bosan orang dudok takder music.."
ok lah Ayah.....suka hati k....haha!!
I bought some stuffs for him. He liked Abercrombie & Fitch T-shirt and cologne so I bought it for the exchange gifts.
Wak Jawa don't really like to wear ring but he wanted to have a ring for the 'tanda tunang' (merepek kan dekni) haha!! He said "saya memang tak pakai cincin tapi tunang ni saya nak pakai jadi orang tahu saya taken..." eh....tak perlu eh perangai! haha!!! He likes watches too, so tanda tunang I bought both cincin and watch :)
For me, initially I let his mum choose for me lah....but while walking around town, I fell in love with this 0.7ct solitaire ring (you know that moment when you have already fall in love on something and you fell like that is the one..its like true love) ok, jgn macam paham! And during that time, there was a great offer and it was a freaking good deal. I immediately called Wak Jawa on this and told him to ask his mum if she is ok with it, of course I will need her to come down the shop to see the ring lah....
Alhamdulillah she is ok with it as long as I liked it..yeay!!!
Now just counting down to the special day :)
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
She was warded in ICU for almost a month and the only thing on my mind was "will mum get to see me married?"
Everyday I prayed and doa to Allah......
Alhamdulillah mum survived the 8 hours long operation that she has to undergo to clip the burst blood vessel. And till now, mum is on long sick leave....
from 9 January 2013 till today, 24 December 2013......lama kan? She is progressing well and she is able to do the normal duties however she is not strong as before lah. So wherever she go, we will not let her be alone.
Touching part, my parents and Wak Jawa parents have never met but they actually come down to visit my mum when she was in ICU...eh.....sweet kaper!!!!! touching eh...
They also did a small kenduri and cooked the bubur merah for mum to get well soon..eh eh.....nak nangis siol!!!!!!! asal sweet sangat bakal mertua ku??!!!! Sayang sangat lah!
Now back to the planning....
After da masok meminang session during April, we finally decided on the date. Since me and Wak Jawa wanted in June, we all agreed on 22 June 2013, Saturday.
Me and Wak Jawa planned on a simple 'just sarung cincin' event. Dulang setakat 3-4 with food only. Setakat jemput ahli keluarga terdekat furthermore my mum not that well right, don wanna tire her lah.
A few weeks later his mum mentioned that she has bought for me kain, sejadah,telekung and etc for the dulang.........eh eh.....macam nak nikah plak..haha!!! (I can understand coz its their 1st child mah)
And when his dad says that they want to pasang mini tentage kat depan rumah and inviting guests of 200 I was like -
Yes, anjat gegirl!!!! When I told my mum about it, she was happy because that is also what she wanted, to have a majlis. Haiz, mak aku ni pon....orang tanak penat kan dia.......
I also had a talk with Wak Jawa....he said to just follow if that's what our mum wanted...
I berdegil still wanna have it my way but what Wak Jawa said really change my mind...
"Awak, remember that time when you almost lost your mum? You don't want to live with regret of not fulfilling her wish right? Mak ayah kita ni besar hati anak2 da nak membina hidup baru...biarlah kita ikut jer cakap dorang k...."
Hmmmm....ok boss!!
I already knew who I wanted to doll me up on my day so senang lah, its a close fren of mine...
dulang all DIY from my mum's best friend nyer anak...
deco pon siket2 lah use her...makan2 all will be at the void deck.....
my void deck space just a small one lah...with karaoke sponsored by my Dad's friend...melampau eh! I initially didn't want the karaoke but Dad say "kan bosan orang dudok takder music.."
ok lah Ayah.....suka hati k....haha!!
I bought some stuffs for him. He liked Abercrombie & Fitch T-shirt and cologne so I bought it for the exchange gifts.
Wak Jawa don't really like to wear ring but he wanted to have a ring for the 'tanda tunang' (merepek kan dekni) haha!! He said "saya memang tak pakai cincin tapi tunang ni saya nak pakai jadi orang tahu saya taken..." eh....tak perlu eh perangai! haha!!! He likes watches too, so tanda tunang I bought both cincin and watch :)
For me, initially I let his mum choose for me lah....but while walking around town, I fell in love with this 0.7ct solitaire ring (you know that moment when you have already fall in love on something and you fell like that is the one..its like true love) ok, jgn macam paham! And during that time, there was a great offer and it was a freaking good deal. I immediately called Wak Jawa on this and told him to ask his mum if she is ok with it, of course I will need her to come down the shop to see the ring lah....
Alhamdulillah she is ok with it as long as I liked it..yeay!!!
Now just counting down to the special day :)
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
Monday 23 December 2013
How he asked my Parents....hand in marriage...nyehehe!!
The week after meeting his parents -
We were from work and we finished the same time. I was with him at NTUC when his mum called, he said that he is with me and straightaway his mum asked me to come by.
I didn't really wanna go to his house because I am still in my uniform and kasut kerja with my stockings all....confirm bacen! But Wak Jawa insisted for me to come as his mum already pelawa, nanti kecik hati plak kan....so I went, of course I asked for my mum permission 1st and she allowed.
FYI, both of us ni actually anak mak.........so anything that we do, we would ask mum 1st :)
So we reached his house and his mum had actually cooked....we ate and talk when his father came back home from work. His father sat down with us and without any pause, he said "Cik da bincang dgn makcik.....cik ingat, lepas Khalilah balek umrah, cik nak hantar pihak cik untuk masuk meminang..."
He also added "Khalilah pergi umrah bulan March, cik antar pihak cik untuk masok meminang bulan April...bulan June tarikh pertunangan..."
EEeeerrrkrkkkkk!!!! cepat per planning!!! anjat gegirl!
I just smiled and said that I will also have to discuss with my parents also...and they are ok with it. I can understand the excitement that his parents is having now because Wak Jawa is their 1st born mah.....
Me and Wak Jawa never mentioned further on the masok meminang or what, we only planned for our engagement to be in June as both our birthdays fall on the same month. Mine is 11 June where as he's 09 June.
Hats off lah to the parents....planning lagi baik dari kita...haha!!
So Wak Jawa was sending me home when my mum called to ask my whereabouts. I told her that I am on the way home and that Wak Jawa is with me, my mum immediately told me to bring him home......I was abit reluctant at 1st but when mum said "ajak lah dia datang rumah....abeh dia da bawak anak aku pergi rumah dia 2 kali, dia tak kan tanak dtg sini.....?" ah kan, mak da berbual...hahaha!
So he came to my house and met my parents.......
And out of nowhere, I suddenly said to my Wak Jawa in front of my parents "Awak......you got something to say to my parents right??" *GASP*
Where in the frigging hell did that come from? I do not even know......but Wak Jawa was cool about it (dekni memang cool jer)
He said "Pakcik, makcik......kalau takder apa2 halangan, Insya Allah bulan April nanti saya hantar pihak saya dating masok meminang anak cik....saya nak mintak restu pakcik dgn makcik..."
I can see mum was getting emotional.....she wanted to cry but step maintain ah tu.....but she smiled and asked us "korang dua2 da fikir masak2? betul korang ni suka sama suka..?"
I said "tak lah ma...dia yg giler2 kan orang...." LOL!!! aper lah mak aku nie tanyer mcm gitu...haha!!!!
Mum replied "eeiippp!!! kau ni pon....tak baik tau cakap gitu depan bakal suami kau.."
*ah kan, aku da kene*
She continued "cik memang merestui lagi2 klau bende yang baik, tak usah lmbt2 kan....cik doakan yang terbaik untuk korang dua.."
Ok, ni part bapak aku merepek.....
"Abeh rombongan nanti nak antar braper ramai orang? dua tiga kereta tak main ah....nak antar, satu lorry skali..."
*SLAPS FOREHEAD*
Yes, that's my dad lor....dia memang kaki gurau one.......
Wak Jawa replied "itu belum tau cik, klau nak antar meminang mungkin makcik dan pakcik saya jer dgn mak ayah....."
Dad say "takperlah.....itu nanti kita boleh runding yer....cik nak Fairuz jaga Khalilah baik2...Khalilah pon kene jaga Fairuz baik2...."
My mun den sampuk "ah...ni cik nak bilang, si Khalilah nie dia angin....perangai dier asek nak marah jer...klau dier salah Fairuz marah jer dia...cik kasi green light.."
EH EH MAK AKU....!!!!! Hahaha!! Yes, both my parents memang kaki merepek one......
After that meet ups with my parents and his parents, we both sat down and I said.....
"OMG!! this is happening like freaking fast or what..!"
Wak Jawa replied "tulah...tak sangka eh.....terima kasih awak sudi terima saya.."
ah kan....die da start die peh formal speech..LOL!!
but den, it is just him lah......sometimes I felt that I have to tapis siket my percakapan, coz when I introduced him to my best friend from ITE, they told me that our perwatakan jauh berbeza.....haha!! yeah..yeah......memang jauh lor...
coz im like the bising plus kecoh girl where as he is the cool and sopan type....oh well, opposite attracts lah gitu...
I'll update you all on the engagement soon aite? :)
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
We were from work and we finished the same time. I was with him at NTUC when his mum called, he said that he is with me and straightaway his mum asked me to come by.
I didn't really wanna go to his house because I am still in my uniform and kasut kerja with my stockings all....confirm bacen! But Wak Jawa insisted for me to come as his mum already pelawa, nanti kecik hati plak kan....so I went, of course I asked for my mum permission 1st and she allowed.
FYI, both of us ni actually anak mak.........so anything that we do, we would ask mum 1st :)
So we reached his house and his mum had actually cooked....we ate and talk when his father came back home from work. His father sat down with us and without any pause, he said "Cik da bincang dgn makcik.....cik ingat, lepas Khalilah balek umrah, cik nak hantar pihak cik untuk masuk meminang..."
He also added "Khalilah pergi umrah bulan March, cik antar pihak cik untuk masok meminang bulan April...bulan June tarikh pertunangan..."
EEeeerrrkrkkkkk!!!! cepat per planning!!! anjat gegirl!
I just smiled and said that I will also have to discuss with my parents also...and they are ok with it. I can understand the excitement that his parents is having now because Wak Jawa is their 1st born mah.....
Me and Wak Jawa never mentioned further on the masok meminang or what, we only planned for our engagement to be in June as both our birthdays fall on the same month. Mine is 11 June where as he's 09 June.
Hats off lah to the parents....planning lagi baik dari kita...haha!!
So Wak Jawa was sending me home when my mum called to ask my whereabouts. I told her that I am on the way home and that Wak Jawa is with me, my mum immediately told me to bring him home......I was abit reluctant at 1st but when mum said "ajak lah dia datang rumah....abeh dia da bawak anak aku pergi rumah dia 2 kali, dia tak kan tanak dtg sini.....?" ah kan, mak da berbual...hahaha!
So he came to my house and met my parents.......
And out of nowhere, I suddenly said to my Wak Jawa in front of my parents "Awak......you got something to say to my parents right??" *GASP*
Where in the frigging hell did that come from? I do not even know......but Wak Jawa was cool about it (dekni memang cool jer)
He said "Pakcik, makcik......kalau takder apa2 halangan, Insya Allah bulan April nanti saya hantar pihak saya dating masok meminang anak cik....saya nak mintak restu pakcik dgn makcik..."
I can see mum was getting emotional.....she wanted to cry but step maintain ah tu.....but she smiled and asked us "korang dua2 da fikir masak2? betul korang ni suka sama suka..?"
I said "tak lah ma...dia yg giler2 kan orang...." LOL!!! aper lah mak aku nie tanyer mcm gitu...haha!!!!
Mum replied "eeiippp!!! kau ni pon....tak baik tau cakap gitu depan bakal suami kau.."
*ah kan, aku da kene*
She continued "cik memang merestui lagi2 klau bende yang baik, tak usah lmbt2 kan....cik doakan yang terbaik untuk korang dua.."
Ok, ni part bapak aku merepek.....
"Abeh rombongan nanti nak antar braper ramai orang? dua tiga kereta tak main ah....nak antar, satu lorry skali..."
*SLAPS FOREHEAD*
Yes, that's my dad lor....dia memang kaki gurau one.......
Wak Jawa replied "itu belum tau cik, klau nak antar meminang mungkin makcik dan pakcik saya jer dgn mak ayah....."
Dad say "takperlah.....itu nanti kita boleh runding yer....cik nak Fairuz jaga Khalilah baik2...Khalilah pon kene jaga Fairuz baik2...."
My mun den sampuk "ah...ni cik nak bilang, si Khalilah nie dia angin....perangai dier asek nak marah jer...klau dier salah Fairuz marah jer dia...cik kasi green light.."
EH EH MAK AKU....!!!!! Hahaha!! Yes, both my parents memang kaki merepek one......
After that meet ups with my parents and his parents, we both sat down and I said.....
"OMG!! this is happening like freaking fast or what..!"
Wak Jawa replied "tulah...tak sangka eh.....terima kasih awak sudi terima saya.."
ah kan....die da start die peh formal speech..LOL!!
but den, it is just him lah......sometimes I felt that I have to tapis siket my percakapan, coz when I introduced him to my best friend from ITE, they told me that our perwatakan jauh berbeza.....haha!! yeah..yeah......memang jauh lor...
coz im like the bising plus kecoh girl where as he is the cool and sopan type....oh well, opposite attracts lah gitu...
I'll update you all on the engagement soon aite? :)
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
'Surprise' Meet His Parents Session
And so, he asked me out on 01 January 2013, Tuesday.
He just say that he wants me to accompany him eat at Habibie and I agreed. But I reminded him that I am looking at my worse as I had just did my 'Bekam Darah' on my back and the sides of my forehead area but he was fine with it and I keep on reminding him not to be ashamed if people were to stare.
Let me show you the pics - taken from my instagram
He just say that he wants me to accompany him eat at Habibie and I agreed. But I reminded him that I am looking at my worse as I had just did my 'Bekam Darah' on my back and the sides of my forehead area but he was fine with it and I keep on reminding him not to be ashamed if people were to stare.
Let me show you the pics - taken from my instagram
Ugly right???
Oh, Wak Jawa also told me to wear 'appropriately'......hmmm, im not the kind to wear sexy2, mampos mak aku lempang nanti! LOL! I find it kinda weird lor that he is saying something like that when we are only gonna eat at Habibie..and he said that he will be fetching me from my house but I told him that since Habibie is nearer to his house, I shall just meet him there but he still insist to fetch me and to avoid any unnecessary quarrel, I agreed.
345pm he texted that he had reached my void deck. I came down and he looked at me with the sweetest smile and say "terima kasih kerana awak sudi teman saya.."
eh eh ni Wak Jawa..aper hal nak formal2 eh??!! But den again, he is the kind yang berbual sopan....that is him lah. Our language is all 'Awak' 'Saya' kind...so yeah....
He rides, so I was wearing my maxi dress (pandai kan??!!) but luckily its only in the Tampines area lor...While on the way, he suddenly turn in to enter a HDB carpark. So I asked him...
Me : "Where are we going? Ini bukan jalan nak gi Habibie.."
Him : "alamak awak...sorry...saya luper beg duit saya...'
Him : "alamak awak...sorry...saya luper beg duit saya...'
Me : "alah...saya kan ada.....don worry lah...I'll pay..
Him : "eh tak bolek awak..cash card saya ada dlm beg duit...saya nak top up.."
I relented lor....as he parked his bike and took off his helmet, I didn't took off mine and say..
Me : "awak pergi lah amek...saya tunggu sini k.."
Him : "ermmm...actually kan....errrr....sebenarnyer....Habibie yang kiter nak pergi kat sini, Rumah saya.....mak saya masak, dia tau awak nak datang..
How would you all feel eh???? da lah tengah burok bekas bekam darah lom hilang, rambut plak belah tengah nak cover bekam kat tepi..abeh dtg tangang kosong!!! With my raised voice I kinda scolded him...
Me : "eh.....merepek eh awak!!!!"
Him : "tak....tak merepek..betul..."
Me : "saya dalah tengah gini (while showing my centre part hair and the bekam marks) abeh datang tak bawak apa2...saya tanak lah pergi rumah awak...." (he keeps on putting his finger on his mouth and told me to lower my voice..i noticed he keeps on pulling me to the sides)
Him : "awak..jgn lah mcm gini....saya mintak maaf tak bilang awak tapi klau saya bilang awak nak jumpa mak ayah saya, mesti awak tanak dtg sebab awak tengah dalam keadaan mcm gini...tapi saya nak awak tau, saya terima awak dalam apa keadaan juga...I will still want you even if you are looking at your worst...." (dalam hati aku da senyum kambing..sweet kaper siak dekni!!!!)
Me : "haiz......I just feel bad that I come empty handed lah...its not nice you know..."
Him : "alah awak...mama saya tak kisah lah.."
Me : "Tapi saya kisah...mama saya tak ajar saya gini.."
Him : "Takper lah awak..lain kali klau datang baru bleh bawak something lah...for today, tak yah k.."
Me : "Ok fine....I will still go meet ur parents eh....but bear this in mind, Im still angry at you..."
So we walked...and was shocked that his house is indeed at level 1!!!
*remember the dream I had*
It is exactly like how I had seen in my dream!!! The colour, the shape, everything...same! but that's just the outside.....
"Assalamualaikum...." both of us beri salam......
His mum came to the door with her telekung as she nak solat asar......
His mum came to the door with her telekung as she nak solat asar......
He told his mum that I was angry....mak ai!!!! tak perlu bilang seh!!!
His mum asked "khalilah, kenapa marah nak..?"
I replied "eh cik...saya tak marah..hehe....dia jer tak bilang yang dia nak bawak saya dtg rumah..."
She spoke to Wak Jawa dengan lembut "Abang...kenapa abang tak bilang? mama kan tak ajar anak2 mama bohong......" And we laughed it off....
I stepped in and walah......the interior of his house is really exactly of what I had seen in my dreams...Ya Allah, kau benar2 beri ku petunjuk....Masya Allah....
I was greeted by a sweet young lady, Rosie, it was his brother's girlfriend....
His dad is still in the room where as his brother is showering...
I was greeted by a sweet young lady, Rosie, it was his brother's girlfriend....
His dad is still in the room where as his brother is showering...
I sat there and made small conversation with Rosie.
(In my mind..he was really planning this whole thing eh....suker lah surprise2..haha!)
His father came out...I beri salam and we exchanged a few words.....His mum had already finished her prayers and called Rosie to help her in the kitchen...I offered to help too but was politely declined..
"takper nak......Khalilah kan tetamu...dudok jer luar...lain kali dtg baru boleh tolong.."\
nyehehehe!
I insist on helping lah but Wak Jawa told me to sit outside....haha!! Kesian eh kene halau! LOL!!!!
While sitting down, his brother came out and we smiled. Wak Jawa sat beside me and smiled at me like a budak tongong like that...as I am still angry at him, I jeling him. So he called me softly and when I looked at him, he gave his smile again.....eh dekni irritating kan!!!! I quickly smiled at Wak Jawa when I saw that his mum tengah cui us from the kitchen....Wak Jawa asked "eh? awak da ok??? da tak marah saya lagik?" I said "Aku maseh marah lah,...tadi mak kau tgk kiter!" LOL!!!!!!
And so the food is served,mak dia masak sedap wei!! We ate and chatted....his parents asked me this and that and they also asked me on my plan for my umrah trip with my family....Yes, I was planning on going for my umrah somewhere around March 2013, Insya Allah......
And the day ended well..Alhamdulillah.
I was pleased with the whole meet the parents session, though it was impromptu, it turned out well! Yeay!!!!
When I got home, I shared the story with my mum and we laughed non stop!
Alhamdulillah :)
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
Friday 20 December 2013
The Proposal
We never dated....
We were not even girlfriend/boyfriend.
We knew each other for less den a month when he proposed.
Yes, less den a month of knowing each other Wak Jawa proposed to me! Berani eh ni anak...haha!
Well here's how it happened.
I had a dream. In my dream, I was surrounded by my parents and elder sis...yes, surrounded eh! They were talking things like "ingat, da kawin ni byk dugaan nye" "kau skrng da jadi seorang isteri, dengar cakap suami, jaga makan minum dan pakaian suami"
You know lah kan...all those pesanan dari orang tua to someone who just got married...
*huh? aku da kawin eh? siapa suami aku siol?*
So after kena hang with all the pesanan, I went into my room to solat...while tengah solat and coming to the last rakaat, my 'husband' came in the room and he was looking out the window....
I finished my prayers and immediately went to him (yelah, nak tau jugak siapa she suami ku!)
I tapped him on the shoulder and asked "excuse me, are u my husband?" eh..aper peh soalan eh! kekek per..but hey, its a dream mah, i cant control it..haha!
My 'husband' turned and........TADA!!!! its Wak Jawa!!! (damn! ingatkan Taufik Batisah kaper!)
He replied "Yes, I am.."
So before we went to bed he said "besok kita jumpa mak dgn ayah saya k?"
I nodded and both turn in to sleep...
The next day, we reached his house.....
In my dream, he stayed at a HDB house at level 1.....rumah tingkat bawah where the entrance door steps is high.
After beri salam, both his parents went to the door and he introduced me...
"mak, ayah...ni Khalilah, isteri saya..."
Both his parents are shocked! They didnt even know that he was married....
His mum merajuk and went in even without acknowledging me but his dad was nice. I salam him and he asked me to come in....
I woke up straightaway......
What a weird dream eh......
I immediately called Wak Jawa.....ceritakan dia and guess wat was his reply????
"Amin kepada mimpi awak..."
eh eh ni mamat......aper yg nak amin kan? bukan nyer aku ada hati kat kau pon (seriously, i do not have feelings for him)
and then he popped the question....(on the phone eh...)
"khalilah, saya betul2 nak memperisterikan awak....."
I brushed him off....
i changed subject.....
aper siak ni jantan? belom kenal aku betul2 da nak kawin...giler kaper???????
he asked me again....but i ignored him....
whatever lah mamat....aku baru kene tinggal dengan ex aku aleh2 dekni nak carik pasal plak nak ajak kawin? aku baru nak mula hidup baru konon nak single mingle dating2 dekni da melamar! aku baru nak perangai stalker carik Taufik Batisah tinggal maner sebab nak ajak dia date dekni nak masok meminang......hahahaha!!!
Guess what, Wak Jawa tak give up k!
on 30th January 2012.......
Wak Jawa just came back from work at midnight, he was in the afternoon shift that day when he said that he wanna talk to me on the phone....so, i waited for him to settle down and we chatted. While chatting, he popped the question again. And this time, he was being serious. Kakak pon start ah serious business dgn dekni...
I asked him a lot of questions..some of them were..
1. You do not even know me..why do u wanna get married?
2. Are you running away from something? Are you in debt or what?
3. Why should I accept ur proposal?
4. Are you willing to accept me for who i am now and forget about my past?
There's alot more but I shall not mention all lah kan..haha!
I told him "saya nyer perangai burok tau lagik2 klau menses....awak boleh ker tahan?"
eh....of course ah kene terus terang dulu.....
Alhamdulillah he accepted lor....
but 1 thing that made me say YES to the proposal is when he said...
"Khalilah, saya betul2 nak memperisterikan awak...saya hormat awak sebagai seorang wanita dan bakal ibu kepada anak2 saya...saya tak akan sentuh awak sehingga kita nikah..."
Masya Allah!
Double Yes!!!!!!!!
After we hang up the phone I prayed....no, bukan nak doa untuk mintak petunjuk if he is the one...instead in my doa I said...
"Ya Allah, Ya Tuhan ku, jika benar dialah bakal imam ku, aku terima..."
and I cried......sebab sayu sgt.......after that, things progressed, Alhamdulillah....
The next day, I slept over my sis place and spent my countdown to 2013 with my lovely nieces....
Wak Jawa said that he wanna meet me the next day, which is already 01 Januay 2013....yeay!!!!
A surprise visit happened on 01 January 2013...wanna noe wat?
Read up my next blog..!!!!
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
I nodded and both turn in to sleep...
The next day, we reached his house.....
In my dream, he stayed at a HDB house at level 1.....rumah tingkat bawah where the entrance door steps is high.
After beri salam, both his parents went to the door and he introduced me...
"mak, ayah...ni Khalilah, isteri saya..."
Both his parents are shocked! They didnt even know that he was married....
His mum merajuk and went in even without acknowledging me but his dad was nice. I salam him and he asked me to come in....
I woke up straightaway......
What a weird dream eh......
I immediately called Wak Jawa.....ceritakan dia and guess wat was his reply????
"Amin kepada mimpi awak..."
eh eh ni mamat......aper yg nak amin kan? bukan nyer aku ada hati kat kau pon (seriously, i do not have feelings for him)
and then he popped the question....(on the phone eh...)
"khalilah, saya betul2 nak memperisterikan awak....."
I brushed him off....
i changed subject.....
aper siak ni jantan? belom kenal aku betul2 da nak kawin...giler kaper???????
he asked me again....but i ignored him....
whatever lah mamat....aku baru kene tinggal dengan ex aku aleh2 dekni nak carik pasal plak nak ajak kawin? aku baru nak mula hidup baru konon nak single mingle dating2 dekni da melamar! aku baru nak perangai stalker carik Taufik Batisah tinggal maner sebab nak ajak dia date dekni nak masok meminang......hahahaha!!!
Guess what, Wak Jawa tak give up k!
on 30th January 2012.......
Wak Jawa just came back from work at midnight, he was in the afternoon shift that day when he said that he wanna talk to me on the phone....so, i waited for him to settle down and we chatted. While chatting, he popped the question again. And this time, he was being serious. Kakak pon start ah serious business dgn dekni...
I asked him a lot of questions..some of them were..
1. You do not even know me..why do u wanna get married?
2. Are you running away from something? Are you in debt or what?
3. Why should I accept ur proposal?
4. Are you willing to accept me for who i am now and forget about my past?
There's alot more but I shall not mention all lah kan..haha!
I told him "saya nyer perangai burok tau lagik2 klau menses....awak boleh ker tahan?"
eh....of course ah kene terus terang dulu.....
Alhamdulillah he accepted lor....
but 1 thing that made me say YES to the proposal is when he said...
"Khalilah, saya betul2 nak memperisterikan awak...saya hormat awak sebagai seorang wanita dan bakal ibu kepada anak2 saya...saya tak akan sentuh awak sehingga kita nikah..."
Masya Allah!
Double Yes!!!!!!!!
After we hang up the phone I prayed....no, bukan nak doa untuk mintak petunjuk if he is the one...instead in my doa I said...
"Ya Allah, Ya Tuhan ku, jika benar dialah bakal imam ku, aku terima..."
and I cried......sebab sayu sgt.......after that, things progressed, Alhamdulillah....
The next day, I slept over my sis place and spent my countdown to 2013 with my lovely nieces....
Wak Jawa said that he wanna meet me the next day, which is already 01 Januay 2013....yeay!!!!
A surprise visit happened on 01 January 2013...wanna noe wat?
Read up my next blog..!!!!
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
Thursday 19 December 2013
That Sad Story....
Well, I did mentioned in my previous blog that I was down at the moment and I did not even
wanna log in to my FB.
Here, I'm not penning down the whole story of my saddest moment of my life however just a brief info ;)
The year 2012 was the worst year for me.....
I was left by the man whom I thought was the one...
He left me without saying anything, just like that, disappear with the wind.
He log in to my FB and even deleted all his pictures, pictures of us dan sewaktu dengan nyer..haha!!
I was shocked....ok fine, he even said that he wanted a time of for a week.
2 weeks gone and he didn't even call or text me....
Weeks slowly come to months, I tried calling and texting him but he did not even replied.
Even on my birthday, he didn't even wish me....
Tup Tup.......Nampak gambar kawin dia kat FB.....
Astarghfirullah....!!!
How would you feel if you were in my shoes? :(
dapat tau pon from my younger sis who whatsapped the pics to our Family Group Chat.
We've been together for 4 years, everything is fine....
He's 8 years older den me and ouh, he's a divorcee with 3 kiddos :)
I don care about status, belum tentu kita dengan orang yang single boleh hidup bahagia...betul tak?
I wasn't at home when she send me those pics........so when I got home, I tried to avoid my family members from asking me questions..i just needed to be alone...
well, im not the kind who cries in front of other's, I can definitely hold back my tears but that moment when my mum went into my room and asked "kakak....u ok..?"
teros nangis....part dgn mak slalu lembik!
I cried and she hug me tight, habis baju butterfly mak aku basah..haha!
She gave me all the words of affirmation,encouragement,perseverance (ok, merepek eh!) i nangis kuat2, tak pernah seh nangis mcm gitu...
This incident did make me reflect on myself...it might be me, who noes i byk kekurangan, that trigger him not to want me...oh well :(
I immediately prayed....
untuk kuat kan hati, tabah kan diri ku untuk tempuh dugaan ini...
The very next day I became stronger and managed to let go of all the sadness....
He's already married, wishing him a blissful marriage and be happy always :)
Buat apa nak marah2? let it go....take this as a lesson learn and move on with life...
Setiap kejadian yang berlaku ada hikmah nya...
Setiap benda yang Allah tarik dari kita, Insya Allah digantikan dengan yang leih baik...
Da.....da..tanak cerita sedih lagik please...
Nanti I continue lagik k dengan cerita dengan Wak Jawa :)
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
wanna log in to my FB.
Here, I'm not penning down the whole story of my saddest moment of my life however just a brief info ;)
The year 2012 was the worst year for me.....
I was left by the man whom I thought was the one...
He left me without saying anything, just like that, disappear with the wind.
He log in to my FB and even deleted all his pictures, pictures of us dan sewaktu dengan nyer..haha!!
I was shocked....ok fine, he even said that he wanted a time of for a week.
2 weeks gone and he didn't even call or text me....
Weeks slowly come to months, I tried calling and texting him but he did not even replied.
Even on my birthday, he didn't even wish me....
Tup Tup.......Nampak gambar kawin dia kat FB.....
Astarghfirullah....!!!
How would you feel if you were in my shoes? :(
dapat tau pon from my younger sis who whatsapped the pics to our Family Group Chat.
We've been together for 4 years, everything is fine....
He's 8 years older den me and ouh, he's a divorcee with 3 kiddos :)
I don care about status, belum tentu kita dengan orang yang single boleh hidup bahagia...betul tak?
I wasn't at home when she send me those pics........so when I got home, I tried to avoid my family members from asking me questions..i just needed to be alone...
well, im not the kind who cries in front of other's, I can definitely hold back my tears but that moment when my mum went into my room and asked "kakak....u ok..?"
teros nangis....part dgn mak slalu lembik!
I cried and she hug me tight, habis baju butterfly mak aku basah..haha!
She gave me all the words of affirmation,encouragement,perseverance (ok, merepek eh!) i nangis kuat2, tak pernah seh nangis mcm gitu...
This incident did make me reflect on myself...it might be me, who noes i byk kekurangan, that trigger him not to want me...oh well :(
I immediately prayed....
untuk kuat kan hati, tabah kan diri ku untuk tempuh dugaan ini...
The very next day I became stronger and managed to let go of all the sadness....
He's already married, wishing him a blissful marriage and be happy always :)
Buat apa nak marah2? let it go....take this as a lesson learn and move on with life...
Setiap kejadian yang berlaku ada hikmah nya...
Setiap benda yang Allah tarik dari kita, Insya Allah digantikan dengan yang leih baik...
Da.....da..tanak cerita sedih lagik please...
Nanti I continue lagik k dengan cerita dengan Wak Jawa :)
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
GUILTY as charged! Oops!
Ok, now comes the last part of the story on how I met Wak Jawa....
Somewhere in Mid November 2012....
FYI, I did side line baking business but had to stop for now as I am really busy :(
So on that particular day, I had received order of red velvet cupcake and as usual, whenever I bake, there will be leftovers....so I brought it to work to share with my beautiful colleagues (limited lah, siapa cepat dia dapat eh..)
I was in the afternoon shift and I decided to wear my contact lens for that day....
While I was going in my office to clock in, I saw one of my nice colleague, who is actually talking to Wak Jawa and offered her my cupcake.
*dalam hati da menyumpah nampak si abg subway*
Since I have already offered my colleague, I also offered Wak Jawa too...since he is there lah kan..haha!
I felt a lil guilty thinking of the 'bahasa kan' moments when I looked at him, I tend to not look at him in the eyes when I offered him the cupcake.
I said "Hey...please, have 1.." and I put on a very nice yet fake smile..LOL!!
He replied reluctantly "Errrmm...no...im sorry...im on a diet.."
MAK KAU!!!! action siak ni abg subway...diet kaper siol??!!
With my eyes rolled, I replied "1 small cupcake wont kill you..." with the fake smile that is..hehe!!
Wak Jawa took the cupcake (entah dia makan atau tak, I don't care!)
But what I noticed is that Wak Jawa looks at me like he's giving this 'u look familiar' kinda look...
And so I said goodbye and left....
On that night, I decided to just log in to my Facebook, it has been months I did not log in due to some reasons to which I shall share it with you all in my coming blog ok? ada lah jugak cerita sedih yang akak nak share :(
When I log in, there are 21 Friend requests and I am not the type where I can just accept whoever wants to add me on FB but I just do not know why on that particular night I decided to click 'Accept All'.
So, I started to kinda be active again on FB, but taking things slow coz I am still a lil sad (deep in my heart) when 1 night, somewhere in late November I received an inbox message which read ......
"Thank you for the cupcake..."
It was Wak Jawa!!!! He had inbox me!
*aper eh nak reply* TOINK!
akak tros jadi bodoh gitu..haha!!! coz u noe, that feeling when u marah2 someone but that person never retaliate back and that person still treat us nice..haha!! I really felt guilty seh...
dats y, never fight fire with fire! oops!
so I replied "ouh..hahaha! so sorry, I didn't know u were on a diet.."
So, yes...he knew me as the lady from the chalet that he never keeps his eyes off...
He mentioned that he had never seen me at work before when in my heart I was like 'aku yg marah2 kau dulu tak kan tak ingat' haha!
And the conversation continues.......
and numbers were exchanged...
BUT....no feelings for him at all, I treat him like all my other guy friend.
BEST PART -
He told me this "awak....that time bulan puasa saya tumpang makan blakang office awak and then got this lady from ur department, dia tegur kita ah.....bahasa2 kan kita...geram jer dengar...."
OOPPPPSSS!!!!!!!!
I apologised and told him that 'that lady' he was referring to is actually me..shucks!!!
Wak Jawa didn't believe at 1st and mentioned that I really look different while at work and when he saw me at the chalet...so yeah..LOL!!!
But hey, he forgave me ok! nyehehehe!!!
So that is how the story goes.....however it is not the end as well.
I will share also on how I met his parents and how he met his parents was...
kekek giler mampos one...haha!!
Till den, see ya again on my next blog aite...
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
Somewhere in Mid November 2012....
FYI, I did side line baking business but had to stop for now as I am really busy :(
So on that particular day, I had received order of red velvet cupcake and as usual, whenever I bake, there will be leftovers....so I brought it to work to share with my beautiful colleagues (limited lah, siapa cepat dia dapat eh..)
I was in the afternoon shift and I decided to wear my contact lens for that day....
While I was going in my office to clock in, I saw one of my nice colleague, who is actually talking to Wak Jawa and offered her my cupcake.
*dalam hati da menyumpah nampak si abg subway*
Since I have already offered my colleague, I also offered Wak Jawa too...since he is there lah kan..haha!
I felt a lil guilty thinking of the 'bahasa kan' moments when I looked at him, I tend to not look at him in the eyes when I offered him the cupcake.
I said "Hey...please, have 1.." and I put on a very nice yet fake smile..LOL!!
He replied reluctantly "Errrmm...no...im sorry...im on a diet.."
MAK KAU!!!! action siak ni abg subway...diet kaper siol??!!
With my eyes rolled, I replied "1 small cupcake wont kill you..." with the fake smile that is..hehe!!
Wak Jawa took the cupcake (entah dia makan atau tak, I don't care!)
But what I noticed is that Wak Jawa looks at me like he's giving this 'u look familiar' kinda look...
And so I said goodbye and left....
On that night, I decided to just log in to my Facebook, it has been months I did not log in due to some reasons to which I shall share it with you all in my coming blog ok? ada lah jugak cerita sedih yang akak nak share :(
When I log in, there are 21 Friend requests and I am not the type where I can just accept whoever wants to add me on FB but I just do not know why on that particular night I decided to click 'Accept All'.
So, I started to kinda be active again on FB, but taking things slow coz I am still a lil sad (deep in my heart) when 1 night, somewhere in late November I received an inbox message which read ......
"Thank you for the cupcake..."
It was Wak Jawa!!!! He had inbox me!
*aper eh nak reply* TOINK!
akak tros jadi bodoh gitu..haha!!! coz u noe, that feeling when u marah2 someone but that person never retaliate back and that person still treat us nice..haha!! I really felt guilty seh...
dats y, never fight fire with fire! oops!
so I replied "ouh..hahaha! so sorry, I didn't know u were on a diet.."
So, yes...he knew me as the lady from the chalet that he never keeps his eyes off...
He mentioned that he had never seen me at work before when in my heart I was like 'aku yg marah2 kau dulu tak kan tak ingat' haha!
And the conversation continues.......
and numbers were exchanged...
BUT....no feelings for him at all, I treat him like all my other guy friend.
BEST PART -
He told me this "awak....that time bulan puasa saya tumpang makan blakang office awak and then got this lady from ur department, dia tegur kita ah.....bahasa2 kan kita...geram jer dengar...."
OOPPPPSSS!!!!!!!!
I apologised and told him that 'that lady' he was referring to is actually me..shucks!!!
Wak Jawa didn't believe at 1st and mentioned that I really look different while at work and when he saw me at the chalet...so yeah..LOL!!!
But hey, he forgave me ok! nyehehehe!!!
So that is how the story goes.....however it is not the end as well.
I will share also on how I met his parents and how he met his parents was...
kekek giler mampos one...haha!!
Till den, see ya again on my next blog aite...
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
Wednesday 18 December 2013
The STARE that made me hate him more.....
And so....Part 2 of how I met my Wak Jawa....
(somewhere in September 2012..)
Our Company had organised a chalet at Changi and I was so excited to go and was asking my best friend, Raihanah (Rai) what her shift was. Thankfully she is Off on that day and we decided to attend!! yeahooo!!
We met at Tampines Interchange 530pm and took bus no 29 (Padahal tak tau nak alight which bus stop..klau sesat pon, ni Singapore lah...pusing2 situ jgk lah kan..haha!)
And true enough, we alighted at the wrong bus stop! LOL!! (Padan muka korang...!)
So we decided to just walk until we could find the chalet (feeling hopeful)
But the scary part was that it is nearing to Maghrib and we had just walked pass Old Changi Hospital and pass by Chalet K of Aloha Changi (you remember the story on the 2 ladies who mysteriously died in the toilet of that chalet?)
Me and Rai were scared but we remained our cool by reciting some prayers :)
And then Rai saw Wak Jawa who was on the phone at one of the gate entrance and say.."Eh....itu lelaki from our company kan? if he is here that means our chalet is nearby lah kan...."
I only replied "oh ya....dekni, si abg subway....come lets go in and check..."
The moment I took a step, Wak Jawa, who was still on the phone saw me and his immediate reaction was...........
I thought he tgk mcm gitu coz he remembered me from the girl who scolded him during bulan puasa!! remember??? LOL!!! (in my heart I felt a lil guilty)
Tapi klau tengok orang cara marah and tengok cara suka kan lain?
and it did ring a bell coz I looked different when at work and when I am outside. (Many have said)
The company required us to wear bright colour lipstick and for those ladies whose hair touches the shoulder, must bun up their hair when we are in uniform. Can u imagine how horrible I look with my red lipstick and bun up my hair mcm nenek2 and pakai specks? yucks!
This is at work This is outside
(pic from chalet)
So back to the story....
Yes, he looked....no, he stared at me like he's never seen a girl before...tak bedek siol!
So me and Rai managed to find the chalet..YEAY!!! and we chat with our other colleagues and eat when Wak Jawa actually came in and 'purposely' sat on the other table facing me and kept on looking at me (I was already feeling uncomfortable)
And when I stood up to take the drinks, his eyes is never off from me..even when I wasn't looking at him, I can see that his head turned to where I was goin..ok, this part, I really felt uncomfortable!!! I even walked pass him and said "Aper siak tengok2???" mcm gangster per aku!!!! OMG!!! haha!! but Wak Jawa just smiled and kept his cool (eh, takder perasaan per ni abg subway? LOL)
I didn't tell Rai about the staring incident but even she had noticed and said to me "babe, I notice that guy kept looking at you seh...da kenaper eh?"
I replied "u pon perasan eh? scary kan dekni? eee!!!!! dalah makan subway...."
I swear, throughout my whole time at the chalet, he never keeps his eyes off me....
haiz lah haiz.....takmo gini ah siol....mcm psycho lah plak! haha!
All ended when Rai's brother messaged her saying that he is booking out from camp and he wants to meet us....yeay!!! Rai's brother, Amat, is hensem ok, dia baru habis NS...haha!!
Lebih baik aku belah jumpa Amat hensem dari kene stare dgn Abg Subway....
So we went off and said Bye bye to everyone there...but I didn't want to look back and find Wak Jawa so I went off without looking back...scary dokkkkkkk!!
What happens after that? Tune in next..........
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
(somewhere in September 2012..)
Our Company had organised a chalet at Changi and I was so excited to go and was asking my best friend, Raihanah (Rai) what her shift was. Thankfully she is Off on that day and we decided to attend!! yeahooo!!
We met at Tampines Interchange 530pm and took bus no 29 (Padahal tak tau nak alight which bus stop..klau sesat pon, ni Singapore lah...pusing2 situ jgk lah kan..haha!)
And true enough, we alighted at the wrong bus stop! LOL!! (Padan muka korang...!)
So we decided to just walk until we could find the chalet (feeling hopeful)
But the scary part was that it is nearing to Maghrib and we had just walked pass Old Changi Hospital and pass by Chalet K of Aloha Changi (you remember the story on the 2 ladies who mysteriously died in the toilet of that chalet?)
Me and Rai were scared but we remained our cool by reciting some prayers :)
And then Rai saw Wak Jawa who was on the phone at one of the gate entrance and say.."Eh....itu lelaki from our company kan? if he is here that means our chalet is nearby lah kan...."
I only replied "oh ya....dekni, si abg subway....come lets go in and check..."
I thought he tgk mcm gitu coz he remembered me from the girl who scolded him during bulan puasa!! remember??? LOL!!! (in my heart I felt a lil guilty)
Tapi klau tengok orang cara marah and tengok cara suka kan lain?
and it did ring a bell coz I looked different when at work and when I am outside. (Many have said)
The company required us to wear bright colour lipstick and for those ladies whose hair touches the shoulder, must bun up their hair when we are in uniform. Can u imagine how horrible I look with my red lipstick and bun up my hair mcm nenek2 and pakai specks? yucks!
This is at work This is outside
(pic from chalet)
So back to the story....
Yes, he looked....no, he stared at me like he's never seen a girl before...tak bedek siol!
So me and Rai managed to find the chalet..YEAY!!! and we chat with our other colleagues and eat when Wak Jawa actually came in and 'purposely' sat on the other table facing me and kept on looking at me (I was already feeling uncomfortable)
And when I stood up to take the drinks, his eyes is never off from me..even when I wasn't looking at him, I can see that his head turned to where I was goin..ok, this part, I really felt uncomfortable!!! I even walked pass him and said "Aper siak tengok2???" mcm gangster per aku!!!! OMG!!! haha!! but Wak Jawa just smiled and kept his cool (eh, takder perasaan per ni abg subway? LOL)
I didn't tell Rai about the staring incident but even she had noticed and said to me "babe, I notice that guy kept looking at you seh...da kenaper eh?"
I replied "u pon perasan eh? scary kan dekni? eee!!!!! dalah makan subway...."
I swear, throughout my whole time at the chalet, he never keeps his eyes off me....
haiz lah haiz.....takmo gini ah siol....mcm psycho lah plak! haha!
All ended when Rai's brother messaged her saying that he is booking out from camp and he wants to meet us....yeay!!! Rai's brother, Amat, is hensem ok, dia baru habis NS...haha!!
Lebih baik aku belah jumpa Amat hensem dari kene stare dgn Abg Subway....
So we went off and said Bye bye to everyone there...but I didn't want to look back and find Wak Jawa so I went off without looking back...scary dokkkkkkk!!
What happens after that? Tune in next..........
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
Tuesday 17 December 2013
Hate at 1st sight...!!
Before the wedding......let me share with you on how I met my 'Wak Jawa' (I shall call him that here)
It wasn't all Fairytale and sparkle in my eyes when I saw him......
oh wait...This is just Part 1 of the story eh (there are 3 parts)
Behold.........
Wak Jawa and I are colleagues (used to).
It was the month of Ramadhan when he and 2 of his other colleagues had asked permission from my friend, who's mending the counter to use our back office to buka puasa. I am handling the Singapore Airlines Customer Service counter where else he is handling the check in counter so nak tumpang makan lah tu...haha!
During the time when he was in the office, I wasn't at my counter coz I was buying food, when I came back, I realised that he and his friends already took the chairs and conquered the whole spot of where me and my friends were 'suppose' to eat.
*dalam hati*
"ni tak boleh jadi ni...suka2 dtg office orang abeh nak conquer tempat eh...aku sekel korang baru tau..!"
So I bahasa kan them "da dtg office orang (macam paham lah office aku eh), beradab lah siket....kita pon nak buka puasa...."
Upon hearing that, Wak Jawa quickly stood up and gave up the chair and he shared seat with his friend (kesian lah pulak tapi aku peduli aper!) and to add oil to the flame, I saw that he was eating Subway...aper lagik? Kakak ni pon start lah kasi ceramah....LOL!!!
"sayang eh da satu hari puasa abeh makan bende yang tak HALAL...! lebih baik jgn puasa...."
(masa bahasakan tu da buka....LOL! aku pon berdosa eh nak judge orang padahal aku pon tak sempurna.)
Wak Jawa diam jer...maintain cool....
Kakak nie tambah lagik........"Mcm maner nak menjadi seorang suami membimbing keluarga kalau makan pon tak boleh beza kan halal haram (eh amboi...menjadi eh akak!!!!)
And I swear, I really dunnoe why I can even be so outspoken like that towards a stranger!
But Wak Jawa still maintain his coolness.....he ate and left and he never came back since..haha!!!
What happens next?
Find out in my next blog ;)
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
It wasn't all Fairytale and sparkle in my eyes when I saw him......
oh wait...This is just Part 1 of the story eh (there are 3 parts)
Behold.........
Wak Jawa and I are colleagues (used to).
It was the month of Ramadhan when he and 2 of his other colleagues had asked permission from my friend, who's mending the counter to use our back office to buka puasa. I am handling the Singapore Airlines Customer Service counter where else he is handling the check in counter so nak tumpang makan lah tu...haha!
During the time when he was in the office, I wasn't at my counter coz I was buying food, when I came back, I realised that he and his friends already took the chairs and conquered the whole spot of where me and my friends were 'suppose' to eat.
*dalam hati*
"ni tak boleh jadi ni...suka2 dtg office orang abeh nak conquer tempat eh...aku sekel korang baru tau..!"
So I bahasa kan them "da dtg office orang (macam paham lah office aku eh), beradab lah siket....kita pon nak buka puasa...."
Upon hearing that, Wak Jawa quickly stood up and gave up the chair and he shared seat with his friend (kesian lah pulak tapi aku peduli aper!) and to add oil to the
"sayang eh da satu hari puasa abeh makan bende yang tak HALAL...! lebih baik jgn puasa...."
(masa bahasakan tu da buka....LOL! aku pon berdosa eh nak judge orang padahal aku pon tak sempurna.)
Wak Jawa diam jer...maintain cool....
Kakak nie tambah lagik........"Mcm maner nak menjadi seorang suami membimbing keluarga kalau makan pon tak boleh beza kan halal haram (eh amboi...menjadi eh akak!!!!)
And I swear, I really dunnoe why I can even be so outspoken like that towards a stranger!
But Wak Jawa still maintain his coolness.....he ate and left and he never came back since..haha!!!
What happens next?
Find out in my next blog ;)
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
Monday 16 December 2013
I am New :)
Hey there, Im new to blogging
chanced upon kahwin khronicles and loved farnamels post...
she's so funny lah. I had a great time reading all her posts and so, I decided that I should start penning down my own BTB journey.
Im getting married in year 2015 and I have already booked my mak andam, photographer and deco...
and for that, i shall share that with you on the details that me and the Mr Fiance went through the process aite :)
excited kakak!!! LOL!!
chanced upon kahwin khronicles and loved farnamels post...
she's so funny lah. I had a great time reading all her posts and so, I decided that I should start penning down my own BTB journey.
Im getting married in year 2015 and I have already booked my mak andam, photographer and deco...
and for that, i shall share that with you on the details that me and the Mr Fiance went through the process aite :)
excited kakak!!! LOL!!
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
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