Hope all is well for you….I'm sure those getting married in the year 2015 da start kelam kabut gedebak gedebuk kan…kan…..kan….????
Haha, sama lah kita…..I'm left with less den 100 days till I am officially Wak Jawa's wife (sap!!! wife seh)
Over the weekend, Wak Jawa and I attended the Marriage Course by Suchi Success - Kasih Sejati.
Although it is not necessary to take the course now (unless you are below 21) I would highly recommend all the Pengantins to be to attend this course.
We may THINK we know what are the rights and wrongs or dos and dont's in a marriage but this course reveals more to it. Even Wak Jawa is pleased attending this course.
Why Suchi Success?? I heard many good reviews by BTBs in the blogs and also, my friends. Not only that, Wak Jawa parents love to go to some of the courses by Ustaz Khair & wife Suriati Abdullah so when I told them that the course is lead by this husband and wife, they gave 2 thumbs up!
Also, for the ladies, it is not compulsory for you to don on the hijab (unless you are attending courses at the mosques) - but I did lah since I am intending to wear it once after I am married :)
Cost of the course : SGD150 per person (SGD300 per couple)
Time : 0900 - 1800
Venue : 152 Paya Lebar Rd, Citipoint
Days : Weekend (Saturday & Sunday) - make sure eh korang takder plan on that day, klau ada wedding pon confirm tak dapat pergi unless its wedding dinner ah.
Kindly ensure that you come a lil earlier on the 1st day of the course for registration purpose.
And just nice, while we just parked the bike, another couple also just reached and suddenly the guy shouted at Wak Jawa "oi…..da nak kawin kapa…?" I was like saper seh? Rupanya Wak Jawa's Primary School mate, Hafiz, who happens to be my Secondary School mate…small world indeed :)
Ada lah jugak kawan..tak segan lah nak masok Class :)
Cost of the course : SGD150 per person (SGD300 per couple)
Time : 0900 - 1800
Venue : 152 Paya Lebar Rd, Citipoint
Days : Weekend (Saturday & Sunday) - make sure eh korang takder plan on that day, klau ada wedding pon confirm tak dapat pergi unless its wedding dinner ah.
Kindly ensure that you come a lil earlier on the 1st day of the course for registration purpose.
And just nice, while we just parked the bike, another couple also just reached and suddenly the guy shouted at Wak Jawa "oi…..da nak kawin kapa…?" I was like saper seh? Rupanya Wak Jawa's Primary School mate, Hafiz, who happens to be my Secondary School mate…small world indeed :)
Ada lah jugak kawan..tak segan lah nak masok Class :)
Let me share with you what I had gone through of the process of this course :)
Module 1
Konsep Keserasian
Profil Personaliti
Analisa Personaliti
Komitmen Terhadap Perkahwinan
Module 2
Konsep Keluarga Asal
Mengenal Bakal Mentua & Keluarga Pasangan
Profil Kewangan Pra-Nikah
Rancangan Pernikahan
Module 3
Pengertian Nikah
Syarat & Rukun Nikah
Konsep Taalik
Tanggungjawab Suami & Isteri
Konsep Nafkah
Sunnah Dalam Nikah
Module 4 (ok ni part confirm tak ngantok…haha!!)
Erti Cinta, Kasih & Sayang
Konsep Nafsu
Seks & Intimasi
Adab-adab Seks
Module 5
Tekanan-tekanan Awal Perkahwinan
Konsep Perubahan & penyesuaian
Tahap-tahap Emosi
Membuat Keputusan
Menghadapi Perubahan & Membuat Penyesuaian
Module 6
Kepimpinan Keluarga
Isu Zuriat
Profil Kewangan Selepas Nikah
Keperluan Kewangan Keluarga
Module 7
Asas-asas Komunikasi
Komunikasi Lelaki & Perempuan
Bahasa Cinta
Tips Komunikasi Berkesan
Module 8
Konflik & Resolusi
Kemaafan
House Rules
Nota Kasih Sejati
So detailed right? I know, but trust me, it is beneficial to me and Wak Jawa.
Ustaz Khair was the 1st Speaker for the course followed by errr…..Ustaz Jalil..I think (sorry I forgot his name k) and then the next day, again by Ustaz Khair and then after lunch it is lead by his wife, Mdm Suriati.
Ustaz Khair memang lah kelakar! confirm ah korang tak akan ngantok….aside to his jokes, he emphasize on how important for each couple to always cherish the RELATIONSHIP between us. How to tackle when one faces challenges and what to expect in every marriage. The 2nd Ustaz stresses more on the meaning of Nikah, Nafkah, Tanggungjawab, Nafsu and the list goes on…..
Lastly, Mdm Suriati guides us on communication between couple, the love language and how to respond to the other half without leading to quarrel :) She also teaches on how a man and a woman thinks, also showed the 'Brain Structure' of a man and a woman…like what man thinks most of the time (sex) and what woman are not good at (reading map and stuffs)
In the middle of the discussion nanti korang standby lah eh Ustaz Khair will curik2 pics of the attendees…and he will upload the pics on the FB page. Keep a lookout on when he will will take ur pics yelah takot2 masa tu korang ugh korek hidung ker garok ketiak kan, nanti da tak glamour..haha!!
Anyways, we have to be seated mirrored our partner. For example I am seated on the 1st row, 3rd from right, so my partner also have to be seated on the men side that arrangement too.
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| Our 1st day - Im seated 1st row, in maroon shawl :) |
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| Wak Jawa….in Grey :) |
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| 2nd day - me in polka dots shawl :) |
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| Wak Jawa kena cover liao :( |
There will also be times when the speaker speaks and asks opinion, thats where the guys will tease the ladies and vice versa..haha!
Wak Jawa part2 menyakat…..eh…dialah terror k….bila ramai dia gangster, tapi bila sorang dia hamster..LOL!!!!!
Especially this part where we had to be in group and discussed on what are the things that we bingit about the guys and what are the thing that the guys bingit about us ladies.
So, each person in the group had to come out and list down.
The result from the ladies are -
- Tak pandai pujuk - this one i write..haha!
- Not responsive
- Bola vs Us
- tidak memahami perasaan
Result from the guys are -
- Selalu membuat andaian
- Tidak cukup berasmara (jimak)
- Selalu minta dipuji
- Membebel
The moment all da tulis mcm2 ah comment yg terkeluar form both sides..haha! serious..ni kekek!
We had to play the game twister but don't worry, only the guys needs to get down on it, the ladies sekadar pusing2 kan the board and instruct the guys…Nasib Wak Jawa kene relek jer..ada sampai kene mcm gymnastic, klau badan tak flexible tu all the best lah eh..haha!!
See the Pictures below (Some I curik from the page itself)
Let the game begin!
Wak Jawa in light blue :)
Da penat sampai dia dudok..hahaha! Kesian nyer..
Spot me, spot me!
The ladies ketawa2 kan their other half..LOL!
So what is the purpose of this game? It relates in many ways, communication, willingness, how woman is the one who will be the planner and they guys are the one acting on it and many more which we discussed about it after the game.
Part kekek -
We thought that we also had to play the game when Ustaz Khair mentioned "ok..yang lelaki sila mask dulu…..yg wanita stay…korang pon ada bahagian…."
In my mind was "alamak..leceh ah klau nak main..mana dgn yg pakai skirt, mana yg baju singkat, mana yg tudung tak ketat….bla bla bla"
And when all the guys went in, ustaz Khair say "ok..ladies…i want you all to……LIPAT KAN BENDE NI LEPAS TU MASUK KLASS…..hehehehe!!!"
Geram seh dia bikin suspense..haha!!!
It ended well with the certificate being issued to each couple. Mdm Suriati will call by the guys name followed by the partner. Ni part funny when Mdm Suriati called out to Wak Jawa's name but she purposely change my name to tease Wak Jawa….
"Mohd Fairuz Bin Adnan dengan pasangan….Siti Masturah…"
Wak Jawa was like "eh…salah….no no no….hahaha"
Mdm Suriati asked again "are you sure this is not your partner's name?"
Wak Jawa "betul…itu bukan nama dia…"
And den she handed the certs and say "ah….sengaja testing.." hahahahaaha!!!
Besides Hafiz's fiance, I also made friend with another BTB, Hazlinda, a very sweet lady :) We exchanged number and followed each other on Instagram. We texted each other on our preparation and stuffs….gerek!
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| Sibok tau si Hafiz photobomb! haha! So BTBs yang baca this blog, this is from Wak Jawa and me, we highly recommend you this course! |
~Princess Boyan Signing Off~
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